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My Future Sister-in-Law Is Skipping My Wedding to Dance at a Football Game. Help!

A bride-to-be has trouble accepting a future relative’s decision to miss her wedding because of a scheduling conflict with a newly landed dream job.

My Partner Won’t Let My Young Adult Children Stay With Us. Help!

After nine years of regular visits from his children, now 19 and 23, a father is steamed by his partner’s suggestion that he book a...

My Friend Is Refusing to Talk Politics With Me. Can She Do That?

A reader feels spurned by a friend’s “self-righteous” declaration that she would no longer engage with him about politics after he revealed he didn’t plan...

My Mother Is Punishing Me for Not Coming Out to Her Sooner. Help!

A young reader variously subjected to cruel words and the silent treatment is reaching the end of her rope with her mother, who has portrayed...

Our Daughter Expects Child Care Even When Her Toddler Is Sick. Help!

A reader who has already contracted colds and the flu from her 18-month-old grandchild is flustered by her daughter’s indifference to her health concerns.

My Mother-in-Law Wants to Be in the Delivery Room With Me. Help!

A reader asks for help setting boundaries with her husband’s mother, who has floated the idea of a lengthy stay with the couple after the...

I Found Pornography on My Husband’s Computer. I’m Furious!

A wife feels disgusted and betrayed after discovering a lurid image of another woman on her husband’s computer screen, and worries that he may have...

Why Doesn’t My Son’s Adviser Understand That Boys Will Be Boys?

A father objects to his son’s punishment after a rowdy “tickle fight” in a darkened room, but an adviser isn’t budging on the decision to...

My Son Wants to Pay for His Sister to Freeze Her Eggs. Too Weird?

A mother wonders whether such an offer from her well-off son would be overstepping, and if not, whether she should be the one to float...

Our Only Friends Went Away for the Weekend Without Us. We’re Hurt!

Adjusting to life in a new city, a couple was stung to learn that the only people they know in town, the husband’s childhood friends,...