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My Husband and I Separated. May I Request Different Tables at a Wedding?

A reader who received abuse from her husband at a recent funeral wants to know whether she can tactfully request separate seating assignments.

Why Did My Friend Keep Poking Her Husband When I Spoke at Dinner?

Long after the dinner party in question, a reader still feels self-conscious about jabs exchanged every time she opened her mouth.

My Girlfriend Won’t Introduce Me to Her Children or Friends. Help!

Their relationship began seven years ago with an extramarital affair, but a reader is ready for his girlfriend to bring him into the fold with...

My Fiancé Wants a Prenup After We Decided We Didn’t Need One. Help!

A reader feels ambushed after her fiancé resurrected the idea of a prenuptial agreement with only weeks to go until their wedding. Also: He wants...

How Do I Tell My Old Friend That His New Partner Is a Dud?

A reader is struggling to reconcile a friend’s partner’s fussy diet and aversion to walking with a planned gastronomic tour of Europe.

My Friend Won’t Speak to Me After I Blabbed About Her Secret Lover. Help!

A reader is frustrated to be on the outs with her friend and their roommates after telling them about her friend’s hookups with another friend’s...

My Future Sister-in-Law Is Skipping My Wedding to Dance at a Football Game. Help!

A bride-to-be has trouble accepting a future relative’s decision to miss her wedding because of a scheduling conflict with a newly landed dream job.

My Partner Won’t Let My Young Adult Children Stay With Us. Help!

After nine years of regular visits from his children, now 19 and 23, a father is steamed by his partner’s suggestion that he book a...

My Friend Is Refusing to Talk Politics With Me. Can She Do That?

A reader feels spurned by a friend’s “self-righteous” declaration that she would no longer engage with him about politics after he revealed he didn’t plan...

My Mother Is Punishing Me for Not Coming Out to Her Sooner. Help!

A young reader variously subjected to cruel words and the silent treatment is reaching the end of her rope with her mother, who has portrayed...