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Why Did My Wife’s Sister Confess to Taking Her Clothes 50 Years Later?

Stung by the revelation that her sister frequently took her clothing without permission in their youth, a reader is baffled by the disclosure: Was it...

Is It Disrespectful to My Dead Father to Speak to His Estranged Brother?

A reader’s uncle and aunt were touched when she sent them a Christmas card, but her sister thinks the gesture was a betrayal of their...

Why Can’t I Break Into My New Boyfriend’s Friend Group?

A reader is anxious about the language barrier keeping her from bonding with her partner’s friends. A two-week group vacation has ramped up the urgency.

Why Doesn’t My Husband Respect My Opinion About Moving?

After 20 years in a house that was never meant to be a “forever home,” a reader thinks it’s time for a move, but her...

What Kind of Person Lies to a Child With Cancer?

A reader is fuming after a friend lied about her efforts to get a wig made for a sick child, and thinks her other friends...

Should I Push My Husband to Ask for More of His Mother’s Estate?

When a woman tries to remedy a relative’s unequal generosity to her children using her own estate, her daughter-in-law wonders whether her husband is being...

Why Does My Husband Exclude Me From Dinners With His Siblings?

A reader has been feeling left out by her husband’s siblings-only dinners — and never more so than when her brother-in-law crashed a recent get-together.

Can I Ask My Mother-in-Law Who My Wife’s Biological Father Is?

Although his wife has long maintained that she doesn’t want to know the identity of her birth father, a reader is tempted to find out...

Should I Be Loyal to My Father or My Dying Uncle?

A reader is torn between attending a final dinner with his uncle, who has terminal cancer, and supporting his father, who wasn’t invited because of...

Was It Racist to Take Family Photos at a Wedding Without Me and My Wife?

A reader’s wife sees bigotry in their exclusion from group photos at a nephew’s wedding, but her husband is reluctant to write off his relatives...