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How Can Our Friends Choose a Realtor Other Than My Husband?

A reader is angered by friends who list their homes with other real estate brokers — sometimes without giving his husband a chance to make...

Why Didn’t My Sister Include Me in Her ‘Family’ Birthday Party

A reader’s feelings are hurt after offering to fly to celebrate her sister’s 70th birthday only to be told not to bother, as “all her...

My In-Laws Gave Gifts to Two Grandchildren, but Not to a Third. Help!

Two years after one of her children received a generous birthday gift, a reader wonders whether to intervene on behalf of her overlooked child.

How Do I Get My Unemployed Brother Out of Our Father’s House?

Four years after being laid off, a man in his 50s is still relying on his father, who just moved into an assisted living facility,...

Why Won’t Our Daughter Introduce Us to Her New Boyfriend?

Parents who enjoy an otherwise close relationship with their 33-year-old daughter feel hurt not to have been introduced to a man she met three months...

Why Can’t My Friend Accept That My Disabled Son Has a Great Life?

Put off by pitying displays of concern for her son’s paralysis, a reader wonders how to handle a well-meaning friend whose support misses the mark.

My Brother’s Ex-Wife Won’t Return a Family Heirloom. Help!

A reader had hoped that her grandmother’s ring would stay in the family, perhaps to pass on to her daughter, but her former sister-in-law has...

My Oldest Friend Is Being Paroled From Prison. Can I Dump Her?

After supporting an old friend through years of incarceration with letters and shipments of books, a reader wants out, put off by the woman’s lies...

Why Did My Birth Son Invite Me to a Wedding and Then Seat Me in Siberia?

Reunited with her son after half a century, a reader feels slighted by her seat at a family wedding, where her son’s wife had already...

My Brother-in-Law Gets Free Child Care From His Parents. Why Don’t We?

Frustrated that she and her partner live too far away from his parents to reap the benefits of free grandparental supervision, a reader wonders how...