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I’m Estranged From My Best Friend but Still Invited to Her Family Holidays. Help!

A reader feels conflicted about attending celebrations as a friend of the family when the woman who was her original connection won’t be there. Should...

My 75-Year-Old Husband Wants Sex Every Day. What Do I Do?

A reader feels frustrated by her husband’s daily expectations of sex, which she worries may be a sign of something more troubling.

We Don’t Want Kids at Our Dinner Parties. Do We Have to Include Them Anyway?

A couple is eager to be closer with their new friends, but they worry that insisting that guests arrange for child care will start the...

How Can I Get Myself Invited to My Husband’s Family Parties?

A new wife is eager to join in the fun after her husband and brother-in-law wrap up their weekly jam sessions, but she’s reluctant to...

Should We Keep Paying for Our Ungrateful Son to Join Us on Family Vacations?

Unsatisfied with her middle-aged son’s meager displays of gratitude, a reader wonders whether to stop footing his bill for a yearly camping retreat.

Why Do Men Insist I’m Not Perimenopausal After I’ve Told Them I Am?

A reader wonders how best to call out male friends and co-workers when they dismiss her assessments of her own health.

Why Can’t I Get My Wife to Split the Costs of Sharing Our Home?

A retiree is mystified as to why his new wife is willing to pay for her share of groceries and utility bills, but refuses to...

After Coming Out as Gay, I’m on the Outs With My Ex-Wife’s Family. Help!

A reader is dreading his son’s engagement party, where he expects to encounter not only his estranged ex-wife, but a constellation of former in-laws.

Why Is My Mother Obsessed With Buying Me a Status Bag?

A reader who is uncomfortable with expensive gifts doesn’t know how to respond to a $7,000 handbag she had begged her mother not to send.

I Am Dating a Student’s Newly Separated Father. When Do We Spill?

A reader who works with children wonders when she and her boyfriend should reveal their new relationship to his family, including his child who is...