

Philip Galanes
Posts

My Wife and I Were Abandoned for the Holidays. Help!
After his mother agreed to host him and his wife for Christmas, a reader is hurt by her decision to spend the holiday itself with...

Who Gets the Cloned Dog in the Breakup?
A thorny question of custody is complicated by the fact that the reader adopted the original dog, but her ex paid a majority of the...

My Daughter’s Ex-Mother-in-Law Won’t Stop Calling. Help!
Fed up, a reader blocked the caller’s phone number. But should she leave room for the woman to forge a relationship with her granddaughter?

My Old Friend Told My Stepbrother That I Used to Hate Him. Now What?
A stray comment on a dating app brought to light some hard feelings a reader once shared with a former friend. Should she confront her...

Why Did My Dermatologist Ask Me for a Tip?
A reader is perturbed to have been presented with a tip screen while groggily paying for a cosmetic procedure performed by a doctor.

My New Boyfriend Is a Dud at Buying Gifts. What Can I Do?
A reader asks whether she should be more blunt about her wish for birthday and anniversary presents from a man who isn’t the gift-giving type.

I Am Estranged From My Toxic Mother. Should I Go on Her Birthday Trip?
A reader doesn’t want to upset his father, who requested his presence, but the idea of taking a vacation to celebrate a woman he has...

My Husband and I Sleep in Separate Bedrooms. Why Is My Mother-in-Law Obsessed?
A reader asks which details of her marriage — if any — she is obligated to share with her visiting mother-in-law.

My Friends Excluded Me From Their Awesome Trip. What Should I Do?
A reader ponders her next move after being left out of vacation plans with four other women.

I Had an Affair With Someone My Spouse and I See Socially. Help!
After ending a yearslong extramarital affair, a reader worries about a coming dinner party that will be attended by both the former lover and the...