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Why Did My Dermatologist Ask Me for a Tip?

A reader is perturbed to have been presented with a tip screen while groggily paying for a cosmetic procedure performed by a doctor.

My New Boyfriend Is a Dud at Buying Gifts. What Can I Do?

A reader asks whether she should be more blunt about her wish for birthday and anniversary presents from a man who isn’t the gift-giving type.

I Am Estranged From My Toxic Mother. Should I Go on Her Birthday Trip?

A reader doesn’t want to upset his father, who requested his presence, but the idea of taking a vacation to celebrate a woman he has...

My Husband and I Sleep in Separate Bedrooms. Why Is My Mother-in-Law Obsessed?

A reader asks which details of her marriage — if any — she is obligated to share with her visiting mother-in-law.

My Friends Excluded Me From Their Awesome Trip. What Should I Do?

A reader ponders her next move after being left out of vacation plans with four other women.

I Had an Affair With Someone My Spouse and I See Socially. Help!

After ending a yearslong extramarital affair, a reader worries about a coming dinner party that will be attended by both the former lover and the...

How Do I Ask a Close Friend’s Husband to Be Our Sperm Donor?

After getting an initial thumbs up that may have been in jest, a reader wonders how to make a sensitive request that is more likely...

My Child’s Friend Asked to Be Called a Name Used by Another Gender. Should I Do It?

A reader is unsure how to respond to a child’s wish to go by a different name after learning that the child’s mother decided not...

My Sister-in-Law Spent All Her Parents’ Money When She Took Them In. Now She Wants More!

After her sister-in-law spent the money from the sale of her parents’ house on upgrades to her own, a reader bristles at being made to...

What Can I Do About My Daughter’s Father Showing Up Drunk?

When an ex returns from out of the blue with the same drinking problem but a new desire to be in his daughter’s life, a...