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I Feel Bad for My Mother, but I’m Sick of Her Complaining. Help!

A reader has come to dread phone calls from her mother, whose deep unhappiness she attributes to life with her “textbook narcissist” stepfather.

I Think My Granddaughter Stole From Me. Help!

A reader was alarmed to find precious jewelry missing from her home after leaving her 22-year-old granddaughter to house-sit for the night.

My Neighbor With Dementia Is a Big Nuisance. Help!

A reader wonders what he should do about his neighbor’s bothersome behavior, including loud singing and guitar playing mornings and evenings.

My Partner and I Aren’t Excited to Move In Together. Is That Bad?

A reader and his girlfriend who are happy living apart worry that their reluctance to shack up could spell trouble for their relationship.

May I Confront My Sister About Excluding My Fiancée From Her Wedding Album?

A reader’s suspicion that his sister doesn’t like his fiancée seems to have been confirmed by her absence from wedding photos. But how should he…

Why Is My Family Avoiding Me After I Cut Off Contact With My Father?

A reader is eager to revive his relationships with his mother and younger brother, which have been on ice ever since he set a firm…

Are Tight Jeans and Cologne Reason Enough to Stop Dating a Nice Man?

A reader is having trouble overlooking certain aspects of the personal presentation of a man whom she otherwise likes quite a lot.

Is It OK to Confide in My Best Friend About My Heavy Medical Diagnosis?

A reader wonders whether it would unfairly burden a friend to share sobering health news with her and her alone.

Do We Have to Thank My Brother-in-Law for His Gifts if We Hate His Politics?

A couple’s passive efforts to keep a relative at arm’s length, like quietly donating his gifts to charity, are not being received as intended.

If I Don’t Invite My Difficult Sister to Visit, Can I Invite the One Who’s Less Trouble?

A reader doesn’t have the energy to host a sister whose young children caused a ruckus during their last visit. Does that mean she can’t…