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My Husband and I Sleep in Separate Bedrooms. Why Is My Mother-in-Law Obsessed?

A reader asks which details of her marriage — if any — she is obligated to share with her visiting mother-in-law.

My Friends Excluded Me From Their Awesome Trip. What Should I Do?

A reader ponders her next move after being left out of vacation plans with four other women.

I Had an Affair With Someone My Spouse and I See Socially. Help!

After ending a yearslong extramarital affair, a reader worries about a coming dinner party that will be attended by both the former lover and the…

How Do I Ask a Close Friend’s Husband to Be Our Sperm Donor?

After getting an initial thumbs up that may have been in jest, a reader wonders how to make a sensitive request that is more likely…

My Child’s Friend Asked to Be Called a Name Used by Another Gender. Should I Do It?

A reader is unsure how to respond to a child’s wish to go by a different name after learning that the child’s mother decided not…

My Sister-in-Law Spent All Her Parents’ Money When She Took Them In. Now She Wants More!

After her sister-in-law spent the money from the sale of her parents’ house on upgrades to her own, a reader bristles at being made to…

What Can I Do About My Daughter’s Father Showing Up Drunk?

When an ex returns from out of the blue with the same drinking problem but a new desire to be in his daughter’s life, a…

Do We Have to Pay for Our Children’s ‘Platonic Partners’ on Family Vacations?

Mindful of costs, a reader wonders whether she and her husband are obligated to extend the same hospitality to their daughter’s best friend as to…

I Used a Slur for Accuracy When Repeating a Joke. Why Is Everyone Upset?

A reader asks whether she has to apologize after recounting a joke that used racist language in front of her son’s friend, who later said…

My Husband’s Children Stopped Talking to Him After They Saw His Will. Help!

A reader’s adult stepchildren want nothing to do with her or their father after learning that the couple plan to leave their estates to each…