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My Fiancé Wants a Prenup After We Decided We Didn’t Need One. Help!

A reader feels ambushed after her fiancé resurrected the idea of a prenuptial agreement with only weeks to go until their wedding. Also: He wants…

How Do I Tell My Old Friend That His New Partner Is a Dud?

A reader is struggling to reconcile a friend’s partner’s fussy diet and aversion to walking with a planned gastronomic tour of Europe.

My Friend Won’t Speak to Me After I Blabbed About Her Secret Lover. Help!

A reader is frustrated to be on the outs with her friend and their roommates after telling them about her friend’s hookups with another friend’s…

My Future Sister-in-Law Is Skipping My Wedding to Dance at a Football Game. Help!

A bride-to-be has trouble accepting a future relative’s decision to miss her wedding because of a scheduling conflict with a newly landed dream job.

My Partner Won’t Let My Young Adult Children Stay With Us. Help!

After nine years of regular visits from his children, now 19 and 23, a father is steamed by his partner’s suggestion that he book a…

My Friend Is Refusing to Talk Politics With Me. Can She Do That?

A reader feels spurned by a friend’s “self-righteous” declaration that she would no longer engage with him about politics after he revealed he didn’t plan…

My Mother Is Punishing Me for Not Coming Out to Her Sooner. Help!

A young reader variously subjected to cruel words and the silent treatment is reaching the end of her rope with her mother, who has portrayed…

Our Daughter Expects Child Care Even When Her Toddler Is Sick. Help!

A reader who has already contracted colds and the flu from her 18-month-old grandchild is flustered by her daughter’s indifference to her health concerns.

My Mother-in-Law Wants to Be in the Delivery Room With Me. Help!

A reader asks for help setting boundaries with her husband’s mother, who has floated the idea of a lengthy stay with the couple after the…

I Found Pornography on My Husband’s Computer. I’m Furious!

A wife feels disgusted and betrayed after discovering a lurid image of another woman on her husband’s computer screen, and worries that he may have…